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Sunday, October 24, 2010

Just friends?

Question. Do you think its possible for guys and girls to be just friends without either one having feelings for the other?

I think yes, though people have argued with me that its impossible and that guys are only friends with girls because they wanna get with them...I think thats just ridiculous. What are your thoughts?

Sorry this post isn't long, I have a lot of school work and I'm trying to get all pretty for my lubber. We're gonna celebrate his 21st tonight! *his birthday is tomorrow* 

26 comments:

  1. Hellz yeah im an old man now! Also, yah, ridiculous that guys and girls cant be friends.

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  2. I don't think it's possible. I think even if you are friends, there are definitely times where one or the other actually thinks about taking it further but decides not to because they have basically stayed at the friend phase for too long.

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  3. It's entirely possible, though at some point one of them will end up having feelings for the other. Sometimes they'll get past it, sometimes they won't. It's definitely possible, but there's always a good chance new feeling will arise.

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  4. If the guy is friends with a girl, he wants to fuck her or her friends. Its just a way to gain access to sex, it always is.

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  5. I think so. It's nice sometimes to just have someone of the opposite sex you can have a good time with. Good posts! Keep up the good work :) Check out my blog sometime. It's @WereAndWillBe.blogspot.com. Be sure to follow as I'm following yours! Thanks :)

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  6. dunno. i think it happens sometimes.

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  7. It's possible, but a lot of the time i have feelings for girls before they friendzone me. sometimes its the other way around. feels bad

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  8. I think it will always be in the back of the dudes mind.

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  9. Its possible, but honestly unless both parties are in relationships, it generally tends to lead to feelings.

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  10. That's obviously possible. I don't like every girl I become friends with. I have lots of girls that are just friends.

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  11. It's a messy subject. most guys hang out with girls because there is an attraction.

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  12. I have a lot of female friends I find very unattractive but still love to spend time with. And I would argue that there is a sexual desire towards every human being, disregarding gender, age, relation, etc.

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  13. I don't know. I think there's something in a guys brain that, no matter what the nature of your relationship is with the girl, you subconsciously size her up as a potential mate.

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  14. It is really complicated, but is beautiful.
    Fuck yea man, it's possible.
    It's not an handy relationship most of times, but impossible is noting.
    Yea, buy Adidas.

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  15. I think it's totally possible, I have relationships like that all the time.

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  16. impossible... fuck buddies for life

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  17. mmm totally possible. My ex-gf and I were best friends until she left.

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