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Sunday, October 24, 2010

Just friends?

Question. Do you think its possible for guys and girls to be just friends without either one having feelings for the other?

I think yes, though people have argued with me that its impossible and that guys are only friends with girls because they wanna get with them...I think thats just ridiculous. What are your thoughts?

Sorry this post isn't long, I have a lot of school work and I'm trying to get all pretty for my lubber. We're gonna celebrate his 21st tonight! *his birthday is tomorrow* 
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24 comments:

  1. Mr.AwesomeOctober 24, 2010 at 3:31 PM

    Hellz yeah im an old man now! Also, yah, ridiculous that guys and girls cant be friends.

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  2. ModerneFusionOctober 24, 2010 at 3:45 PM

    I don't think it's possible. I think even if you are friends, there are definitely times where one or the other actually thinks about taking it further but decides not to because they have basically stayed at the friend phase for too long.

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  3. Mr. McKrakenOctober 24, 2010 at 4:30 PM

    It's entirely possible, though at some point one of them will end up having feelings for the other. Sometimes they'll get past it, sometimes they won't. It's definitely possible, but there's always a good chance new feeling will arise.

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  4. AnonymousOctober 24, 2010 at 4:40 PM

    If the guy is friends with a girl, he wants to fuck her or her friends. Its just a way to gain access to sex, it always is.

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  5. cannabis manOctober 24, 2010 at 5:21 PM

    yes, i am a perfect example

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  6. NicoOctober 24, 2010 at 5:24 PM

    I think so. It's nice sometimes to just have someone of the opposite sex you can have a good time with. Good posts! Keep up the good work :) Check out my blog sometime. It's @WereAndWillBe.blogspot.com. Be sure to follow as I'm following yours! Thanks :)

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  7. LizardOctober 24, 2010 at 5:48 PM

    dunno. i think it happens sometimes.

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  8. DbankaiOctober 24, 2010 at 6:12 PM

    It's possible, but a lot of the time i have feelings for girls before they friendzone me. sometimes its the other way around. feels bad

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  9. Hidden BloggerOctober 24, 2010 at 6:27 PM

    I think it's possible, indeed.

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  10. njohnfixesOctober 24, 2010 at 8:01 PM

    I think it will always be in the back of the dudes mind.

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  11. NailgunOctober 24, 2010 at 9:41 PM

    Yes, but not often

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  12. MTL beerOctober 24, 2010 at 9:58 PM

    Its possible, but honestly unless both parties are in relationships, it generally tends to lead to feelings.

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  13. LongkidOctober 24, 2010 at 11:13 PM

    That's obviously possible. I don't like every girl I become friends with. I have lots of girls that are just friends.

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  14. KTOTHESOctober 24, 2010 at 11:56 PM

    It's a messy subject. most guys hang out with girls because there is an attraction.

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  15. ToomuchtimeOctober 25, 2010 at 9:20 AM

    I have a lot of female friends I find very unattractive but still love to spend time with. And I would argue that there is a sexual desire towards every human being, disregarding gender, age, relation, etc.

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  16. AnonymousOctober 25, 2010 at 9:30 AM

    I don't know. I think there's something in a guys brain that, no matter what the nature of your relationship is with the girl, you subconsciously size her up as a potential mate.

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  17. Phil McKrackenOctober 25, 2010 at 9:49 AM

    It can get really complicated.

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  18. UnknownOctober 25, 2010 at 1:26 PM

    It is really complicated, but is beautiful.
    Fuck yea man, it's possible.
    It's not an handy relationship most of times, but impossible is noting.
    Yea, buy Adidas.

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  19. comradejoker.blogspot.com/October 25, 2010 at 3:40 PM

    I think it's totally possible, I have relationships like that all the time.

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  20. NePsujOctober 25, 2010 at 4:47 PM

    you are thinking too much ^^

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  21. AnonymousOctober 25, 2010 at 6:06 PM

    thanks for visiting my blog!

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  22. Discerning GentlemanOctober 25, 2010 at 6:34 PM

    if the girl is attractive, then no

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  23. DanOctober 25, 2010 at 10:01 PM

    mmm totally possible. My ex-gf and I were best friends until she left.

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  24. Jimmy VolmerOctober 25, 2010 at 11:22 PM

    no, I don't think it's possible

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